So, I’d been literally putting off writing a blog post about my most popular DMs, which are about my handbag collection. Honestly, my luxury bags are a modest collection, but I think it resonates with people because I always joke about making a “regular check” but still getting the occasional treat. Organizing all the many tips and thoughts seemed daunting to do on the blog, so I decided to go live on IG to discuss it. I have never went live before but wanted to get out of my comfort zone and interact with my followers who are always so supportive. I ran a poll to come up with a time, set a countdown, wrote a few notes, turned on my ring light….and BAM…nobody joined but my mama. Now, before you guys hit an “awwww” or LOL, know that it’s fine! People get busy….trust me, I know! I have a toddler, so it’s hectic around here!
Later on in the night, my bestie text me and asked me did I save the live, she wanted to watch it. I drew a blank and felt so much regret. When I went live, I waited on some viewers and when none showed, I exited. I let pride and discouragement draw me away from something I was excited about!
On top of the regret, how many people who would have watched and engaged if I’d have just continued, saved and completed the video. So many times, we let lack of instant gratification deter us from not only completing our goals, but doing something we love! Who cares if a thing you try doesn’t evolve into a life changing event…..did you like it? Did you have fun? Did it feel good? That should be the focus.
Needless to say, I’m going to try the live again and also challenge myself to write the post for future reference. I recently was able to get my dream bag featured here on this post so that’s my motivation to help my followers by providing tips. The spotlight is fleeting, but self worth is forever. Never let anything sway you from doing what you love on your own terms….even yourself.
I’m here for the handbag tips! I’ve watched your collection grow over the past year and now I want in! Sometimes our biggest enemy is ourselves! I say go live and go live again…soon more than your mom will tune in. Shoutout to moms tho! They show up and show out when needed. Lol
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GIRL! I am not stopping! And you ain’t never lied! Mama’s gone step if nobody does! LOL!
Amen! Such good advice!
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Thanks so much!
Remember your granny saying nothing beats a failure, but a try! You are a winner just for trying, never give up never stop trying new things.
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Thank you, mama! Love you!
Absolutely true. Great post!
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Thanks so much for reading!
Friend, I didn’t know you were going live. I bet a lot of others didn’t know either. That’s alright, I know there will be more to come from here 🥰
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Definitely! Thanks for the support, my boo!